Stereotypes in relations. The ideal partner give you an satisfaction on any count
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Very often, enter into relations we subconsciously expecting that the partner will meet all our wishes. You can guess what you’ll feel when it does not get: an insult and disappointment. So, the stereotype in relationships that the “ideal partner give you an satisfaction on any count” has some negative consequences:
1) You’ll be dissatisfied with your relationships constantly, because partner does not satisfy your needs, you should satisfy yourself. For example, other person can’t help you get more confidence, or happiness in life.
If you do not have goal, direction in life – you don’t fill the inner emptiness and dissatisfaction with yourself by new relationships. The belief that your new love makes life more beautiful – it is the dangerous fantasy.
Thus you can destroy quite successful relationships because of don’t materialize expectations that the partner hasn’t done for you the things you should do yourself. If you feel an emotional emptiness before marriage, you will have the same feeling after.
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2) You will be offended to your partner if she does not give you what you hoped to obtain, although it is not connected with your personal relationships. And moreover, you can begin to demand from she be “all” for you. Just we have such needs that women can not and does not must satisfy: for example, they can not to spend a lot of time in garage with favorite car. Or sit motionlessly near river and fishing some hours running. As well as man can’t go in store, looking for some special blouse during half a day. As a rule, such things they do in women’s company.
So, you must take it for granted, the suitable partner able to meet many of your needs, but not all.
