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But time goes by, the romance begins to disappear from the relationship. It happens so often that it is considered a pattern. But is it right? Whether we like what we have is not so eagerly looking forward to seeing your beloved? Why are we became not so attentive to each other and stop to does something pleasant, the sexual desire disappears?

Romance should not leave the relationship, it is no inherent by nature. When there is no romance – it is a signal that our senses begin to slacken. We are starting to move away from each other, become  indifferent.

There are three main reasons that we gradually grow cold towards each other – offence, disappointment, to taking the the existence of the other person for granted.

People occasionally disappoint us, it can not be avoided. At the beginning of the relationship we stand your partner on a pedestal, we see in him or her only good. Over time we learn the person more and disappointed in some of its qualities more and more. Disappointment leads to the fact that we lose interest and cools to your partner.

It happens that people take offense at each other.  We may offend the unfulfilled promises. We might offend that the partner said or not said something. We may be offend, that our needs are not taken into account, that somebody have forgotten the congratulations on his birthday or wedding anniversary. The offence provoke a desire to withdraw into yourself.

Among you there are certain relationships, you may be married. Our relationships are stable, complete, and the center of your attention shifts to career, children, friends, hobbies … After that is there your relationship the same?

No. Once you start looking at your partner as something usual, as a part of your life, so, you provoke the offence in your partner and it leads to a cooling of relations.

There are several ways to keep a romantic relationship. Learn to see in your partner a person with all its demerits, but does not idealize it. Be ready to the inevitable disappointment and resentments, and learn to forgive. And most importantly, remember, that the person offended and disappointed you did not because do not love you, but because human nature is imperfect.

Do not hide from your partner your negative emotions, resentments, frustrations, the need to change anything. Talk about these issues, discuss the problem together. Talk to your partner how much you love her as if it was the last day of your life.

Constant physical contact is also required for long and healthy relationship. So if after a break you do not feel reluctant to renew it, do not stop trying, then you feel that you go to the contact becomes easier and the desire return to you