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Questions about how to break love, or is there a secret of happy marriage, are interested not only of American psychologists. Here an opinion of the famous German psychotherapist, Professor Dirk Rivenstorf, who works in the same field, studying the problems associated with the marital relationship. In his view, we can’t controlled the gentle feelings only in its first phase, which is called amorousness. But later, conforming to the some advices, you can dating and save the tender feelings for each other for a long time.

• Be yourself
  No one should suppress his own needs and to keep himself in his own opinion for fear of destroying the harmony in the relationship. Yes, even the close people have a right to be different from each other. Be yourself, and at the same time respect the interests of the second half.
• Let your beloved to be herself too
  Some people over the years trying to correct a partner, make him a better, fit to certain own standards. At the same time the partner account responsibility for what is happening. Try once to change your strategy.

• Allow yourself the scandals, but limit its quantity
  If you accumulate a rage and discontent for too long time, you see it may end badly. When your patience is over, probably would break out a big scandal with a lot of accusations against the partner. It is better to sort out relationship more often, but not so intense. Before you begin the conversation, agree that it should take no longer than 5 minutes, and after it try to spend time alone for 45 minutes at least. This way you can avoid uncontrolled outbursts of anger on both sides.
• Do not press down on the weaknesses
  Every person has sensitive, or weak places. When you touch it, we respond particularly acute.
  But nobody knows better your “weak places” than your partner. Your close person knows where to press that to say or make it especially painful. Do not use this knowledge!
• Feelings should not be in a confined space
  Living for today, not what it was yesterday or might happen tomorrow. Do not forget to plan something that you could do together, enjoying the process. Try to choose an occupation that will help you to learn something new about your beloved, and get beyond the usual limits “work-house”. If your whole life assigned by the minutes, use the knowledge on time management and still find time.
• Make sure that you feel good in bed
  If we receive something without any efforts, we have no enjoy. This rule also applies to sex. At the present speed of life, when all somewhere constantly in a hurry, we have little time for the prelude. Work on this issue and organize yourself a second honeymoon.
• Curiosity – the bad quality
  One day, in every man’s life there comes a point when he thinks he knows everything about his loved one. Say goodbye to this mistake for ever, and try, first, to find in her something new (and certainly enjoyable), and secondly, let try to surprise your partner.