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If we turn to the researches of sociologists, we can find: couples who have lived together for many years and still could keep love in a relationship is called the ability to listen – the determining factor for their success in a pair. German-American theologian and philosopher Paul Tillich Johannes, once said: “The main duty in love – to listen”.

Remember, that on a subconscious level, there is the “hearing blocks” that prevent us to understand our partner sufficiently. These blocks take many forms and are based on past experience. We build these blocks that they works as a defensive reaction to troubles. Therefore you must to examine and remove these blocks, because it prevents us to be open and receptive to the opinion of partner. So, what are the “blocks”?

1. Filtration. You hear only those things that you want to hear. This means that you begin to choose out of context just what suits of your vision of the situation. If you want to live in love with your partner, you should open your mind. And hear even those words that do not coincide with your vision.
2. Zoning. It is a deviation to resolve the problem. How does it work? You break a general problem in parts. You decide just the easiest problems, and calm down on it, not thinking about the main problem, which is particularly painful and unpleasant for you. As a result: you are living in your own world, avoid the real issues. Let to exit the “comfort zone” and stat to decide the real problems with your partner!
3. Compulsion. You always insist on your point of view. Every once in a conflict with a partner, you are saying that the right opinion – yours. One of the main reasons of such behavior – it’s pride. Or we use this technique as a way of control over the partner. Let agree with the idea that each person has his own experience, and therefore, his or her opinion.
4. Reeducation. You are going to “improve” your partner. Instead, to hear her opinion and understand what she feels. You always say to her that she was “not right are you” and “knows nothing”. We are all people and we all make mistakes, so stop re-educate your partner, start listening to her point of view!
5. Prevarication. You avoid unpleasant discussions, constantly distracted by something, or deliberately changing the subject. Prevarication, as well as filtration – a typical tactic of evasion of the problem, especially if you feel the guilt.

Do not avoid the reality, not solving the problem now, it’s always come back again! Now think about how do you hear to your partner? Do you make it honestly? Never too late to start to hear to your partner!
Apply this information now in life and you immediately feel the change for the better!